I lived in the same house for 33 years – most of my adult life. It represented security, familiarity and deep at-home comfort. I was so convinced that I would stay in this house for my lifetime.
Following a period of health issues, I realized that staying in my beloved home was not going to be a practical, easy way forward. I couldn’t believe having these thoughts! It was like a betrayal to my sweet little Oak Bay home. But I realized it was only a matter of time before I would find the layout of a home with stairs, inside and out, wasn’t the greatest choice. I was already depending upon the help of friends and neighbours for bigger house and garden jobs, as well as contractors for the major fixes like gutters and fixing fences. And I was starting to resent my home owning me – upkeep demands. The click of the garden gate no longer symbolized rest and ease – it was more like “Shoot, these back steps are rotting! The sprinkler heads need replacing – so soon!” and “I need to paint the basement window frames – again”.
That’s when I met with Julie Rust. It was nerve wracking to think I was making this step – I was full of “I can’t believe I’m doing it, its so scary!” but Julie was calm, listened and was empathetic to my insecurities of making such a massive change. Somehow, I knew that I had to make the jump, put my trust in her and loosen my grip on the picture of what I thought my home life would look like.
At first, I looked around with her and her business partner, Greg Phillips, at condos and townhomes. That process brought me closer to understanding what I liked and what didn’t like – and made me realize after a time that if we found something, you needed to move quickly, money in hand. So, the next deep dive was listing the house and being prepared to have strangers walk through your home. That process was a further “letting go” and symbolic of extracting myself at a deeper level – I was coached in a genuine way by Julie around the concept of trusting the process and was able to feel secure in her knowledge at every level around selling my property and finding my new home.
Sure enough, my home sold and Julie said, “let’s go shopping!” which was kind of fun! We had a list of at least 6 places to see on a sunny Saturday morning. I seem to recall it was about the 4th place we went to that simply felt different. I walked in and felt thrilled – it ticked the big boxes of what I was looking for.
Within the next day Julie had put the offer together – she and Greg were incredible at providing the very best advise and managing all the details.
All along the way I had the very best support and guidance. So grateful for it all.